5th Year

We had just passed our 5th anniversary of our Registration of Marriage (R.O.M). Looking back, these five years have been really challengingly precious. I dont think we would ever imagine our marriage would be like this... sweet!

Our relationship has emerge to a different level where we have even more things to talk about, more laughter, more understanding and better partnership.  The time we have for one another will never be enough. We will never have enough time to each other. The level of understanding we have for one another have created so much fun.  It's pretty hard to describe those in words.

I love him more every single day... and could not live without him ever more.

We may not be living the ideal lifestyle and having the ideal career we wish for now, but going through it together hand in hand is the privilege God has given us.

Love God, because He has given me the perfect husband to grow old together.

The Hilltop Cafe

Was telling hubby about hoping to find a hilltop cafe the other day.  The type of cafe where you are able to just sit around... relaxing while having a good view. Most probably I would have a cup of coffee accompany me.  It's the feeling of running away from all reality again, he knows me... very well.

Last night, due to the space limitation the square table was push close to the window side. And all of a sudden, I found the hilltop cafe at no cost. =) Our apartment unit is on the 13th floor with the KLCC and city view, pretty much what I was asking for. *chuckles*

I don't have my cup of coffee with me now. I had mine this morning. Instead, I had the empty bowl of sour cream chips that was gone is 2 minutes with  me.  Not too bad I would say, still.

Thank God for the windy and cooling moment I have... to write again.

About blogging

Just realised, not many who used to blog before facebook exist are still blogging today. 

So am I.

Guess facebook is the fastest tool to write down whatever you wanna say and lash out whatever you have in mind... and most of us rather to just write the few sentences instead of an-essay-sort-of-'status' lol.

I don't blog anymore too. Guess after having my bestest friend ever, my once great friend then boyfriend now beloved husband.. it's even harder to blog. Not because he stops me from blogging, never. Instead, he mentioned a couple of times that he loves to read my writing. Long and short. I don't quite agree though, there are many more great writers out there, and I don't get FB likes for whatever status I write much too. :P

And yeah, he never stops me... but it's all becos after having him in my life, I have spoken all I have in mind/heart/soul to him and there's nothing left to be written. Sound kinda funny I know, but that's the truth.

Checked back the history of my order blog Eva Sam, I blog the most in 2007. Didn't go through the entire thing but only December to 'recall' what I blog about for the total of 200++ posts in a year, college-life-work-yada added the number of 200++ posts. AND, there's no facebook back then. You have thoughts and ideas, you blog about it. To date, I only blog for business purposes. Sad right? I know.

I have been away from blogging about my life for so long, especially after getting married. It's way too difficult to continue where I have stopped... Else I will need to sit here entire month or more just to update what has happened for the past few years.

I will just give it a skip.

LOL

Alright, stomach is like roaring again... at odd hours. Ish, guess I will need to fill some rubbish in. Oh... God please do not let whatever I eat at this hour to be absorbed, PLEASE!!!!

To be the Godly husband and wife

A post that is posted by Godly Woman Daily really caught my attention today, something that I need to build myself stronger and become a better wife that God will be proud of. The title and points sort of made the 'tips' clear, but it will be good to go through when you have the free time. You can view the entire article by clicking here.

7 Secrets of a Good Christian Wife

① Pray for your husband.
② Speak clearly and directly to your husband.
③ Have your own support system.

④ Accept his relationship with his mom.
⑤ Be his partner.
⑥ Be an independent woman.
⑦ Accept him as a spiritual leader.

I went through the 7 points and immediately noticed there are areas that I need to work on. Not one, but almost 3/4 of it. Well, I am not perfect either... I have my areas to work on.


Just the other day the site were telling about the 5 Priorities of a Godly Husband, which I did not read on but passed to hubby (the iPad) and let him digest on it. Not that I don't bother, but it is better I don't know about it rather than me judging or comparing him to what the article is teaching. So it was my gesture of giving him space to grow rather than me pushing him (that's not the part I enjoy too).

My less-than-a-year business has occupied most of my time with the new addition to the family of our first ever pet - a beagle.  The busy-ness of life sort of sucked out the idea of praying, especially praying for my beloved husband.

As both the articles are linked in one way or another, guess it is time for both of us to look into the real intention of God when He put us husband and wife together. To honor, to love, to learn and grow into the man and woman He intended us to be.  To share and enjoy the love that God has been giving us and demonstrate on one another.  Destination would be to shower unconditional love on one another, but since we can never reach there due to our limitation and shortcoming... we can try our very best to reach the closet point to the point 'unconditional'.

Praise God for His wisdom that inspired the ministry in writing the articles, and now it's up to us to read up, pick up and practice it!

Thank You Jesus!

Hubby admitted - 2nd night

Hubby's condition is much much better today. He has super great appetite, went for 2 sessions of physio therapy that he fully enjoyed and besides a slight pain he's nerve is not pressed that much as compared to the days before he got admitted. Happy for him. =)

Seeing him gobbling one after another and almost eating every edible food around him, he's just like a small child that got all the permission in the world to eat whatever things that come into his way. Guess he will put on some weight when he's home... haha

As for me, eyes are not cooperating much today. Started swelling since the morning. Took pill but it did not subside like it used to. Took the second dosage when both my upper and lower eye lips were swollen. Was experiencing exhaustion that I have no idea of the reason - could it be the fact that I stayed up last night becos I could not sleep? Or becos there's something wrong with my physical body?

No Idea.


Nap on the sofa chair, with no back support. My back also starting to ache, actually since yesterday... One kind nurse helped me put on a patch when she's putting one for hubby. Felt much better, at least the muscle was relaxed a little.

Pray that I will be able to go through this period of time without worsening my health condition as my Saviour permits.

Dossy again, will sleep soon tonight. Although really hope to do some work but I know physically it's a red zone for myself.

Ok. will zzZzzZzzZz...

Thank God for another day

Finally got up. Text hubby while toileting. :P couldn't help it cos that's how much I miss him.

He's always there for me... all d time. But I'd taken his 'always here' for granted.

Now I know how it feels like to have a life without him, as short as a night. Not fun.

Alright, have a few things to do before I head to b w my darling.
1. Clean myself, get dress.
2. Clean up puppy's poo n feed him. Make sure he has sufficient water supply for d day.
3. Pack my work station hopefully can get to work a little so won't be too far behind.
4. To post office posting one customer's parcel while driving out.
5. Go thru d morning jam
6. Be with my darling.

Hopefully he will be able to be discharged today. The house without him is never complete.

Now it's d time to get all d errands started.

Have a great n blessed day.

A night without him

Darling is staying a night in hospital. Missing him badly...


Really... b.a.d.l.y.


Now I know how blessed I am to have him sleeping beside me the past daysss...


A night on the empty bed, is just weird.

Though not the first time, but I miss him especially tonight.